Not everything in life deserves your attention or energy. Focus on what truly matters to you and let go of the rest.In a world full of noise, distractions, and pressure to care about everything, this lesson is a breath of fresh air. You have a limited emotional budget. Spend it wisely. Prioritize what genuinely matters—your health, values, relationships, growth—and let go of the rest. That’s not selfish, it’s smart.🧩 Reflection: What are 3 things you’re giving energy to right now that don’t serve your long-term well-being?

Choose What You Give a F*ck About

Life is full of challenges, and avoiding them leads to misery. Facing problems head-on is where meaning and satisfaction are found.﻿Life will always throw challenges. But happiness isn’t the absence of problems—it’s the ability to handle them. The more capable you become at solving tough situations, the more peace and meaning you feel.⚡ Mindset Shift: Problems aren’t interruptions—they’re the path.

Happiness Comes From Solving Problems

Mistakes are not the end, they're the beginning of growth. The sooner you fail, the faster you can improve.Fear of failure often stops us before we start. But failure is not the opposite of success—it’s the process of success. Each misstep is a data point that helps you refine your path. Fail forward, always.🛤️ Challenge: Redefine failure as a valuable source of feedback. What have your past failures taught you?

Failure Is a Path to Progress

Understanding our mortality reminds us of what is important. Make choices that align with your legacy and what you want to leave behind.We all pretend like we have unlimited time, but remembering our mortality helps us focus. It urges us to stop procrastinating on what matters—whether that’s love, creativity, or living fully. Death isn’t morbid; it’s motivational.💭 Daily Prompt: If today were your last day, what would you do differently?

Death Gives Life Meaning

You can't control everything, but you can control how you respond. owning your choices gives you the power to change your reality.﻿Blame is easy. Ownership is rare. But when you take full responsibility for your actions, decisions, and attitude, you take back your power. Life may be unpredictable, but your reaction is always yours to choose.⚙️ Power Move: Replace “Why is this happening to me?” with “What can I do about this?”

Take Responsibility for Your Life

Accepting that you're not perfect frees you to grow. True strength comes from acknowledging and working on your weaknesses.We’re constantly told to be the best. But Manson flips the narrative: accept that you're flawed, and you’ll free yourself to grow. The real confidence lies in saying, “I don’t know, but I’m willing to learn.” Vulnerability is your power.🔍 Practice: Acknowledge one personal flaw, then take a micro step to improve it.

Embrace Your Limitations

Bad values lead to superficial goals and emptiness. Prioritize values that bring depth, connection, and long-term fulfillment.Your beliefs drive your decisions, habits, and emotional experiences. If your values revolve around fame, appearance, or constant validation, you’ll live in anxiety. If your values are growth, empathy, and contribution, you’ll find joy.🌱 Ask Yourself: Are your current values helping you live authentically or just perform?

Values Shape Your Reality

This book doesn't teach you to not care about anything—it teaches you to care more deeply, more selectively, and more authentically. That’s how you create a life of clarity, purpose, and power.

#1 New York Times BestsellerOver 10 million copies soldIn this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.For decades, we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let’s be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn’t sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is—a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let’s-all-feel-good mindset that has infected American society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

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Mark Manson (born 1984) is a professional blogger, entrepreneur, and former dating coach. Since 2007, he's been helping people with their emotional and relationship problems. He has worked with thousands of people from over 30 different countries. He regularly writes and updates his blog at: www.markmanson.net